its complicated

Its 3.00 am in the morning
And i am nowhere near sleeping .
YOLO kengkonon. Hahah.
Petang td bawak kids jenjalan and balik terus readykan diorang for bed.
Hence my wild night.
Bahahahaha
Wild sangat🙄
While sipping my caramel machiato frappe and munching choc eclairs from auntie anne's ( sumpah rase sinful yet heavenly)
I browsed movie list through netflix.
And nampak 1cite ni,  tajuknye its complicated.
Cerita pasal a divorced couple for 10 YEARS, suddenly getting back together having an affair.
Mind you, the ex husband is now married to other woman.
Whilst the story is boderline light romcom, it gives me some new perspective on divorce.

1. Its hard to get over a divorce. Some may take days, but some takes yearss just to feel normal. Its okay. Its a process.
2. Whenever divorce takes place, the real victims are kids (if the couple have any). Sometimes they may look ok about it, but we never know how divorce impacted the kids.
3. Sometimes, whatever things we do recklessly, it impacted other people's live. No matter how significant the impact was.
4. Its was never easy to be the other person aka homewrecker. The heartache they have to endure when they become the 2nd choice because he obviously he would prioritize his other life.
Sis tak bekap penghancur rumah tangga ni . Tapi sis rase we have to be fair. Everybody suffer. So sepatutnye, jangan dicoba2.Kalau kantoi, yang terpaling patut kene hempok laki tu la. 
Sbb die yg atur lojistik ng kekasih gelap die kans. Tapi kalau kekasih gelap pon serupa shayatonn prangai, ha elokkkk kau hamput due2 ekor. Baru ade akai. But seriously, to be the other person ni mmg memerlukan  kekentalan hati dan mental. Kalau tak, makan hati berulam jantung chuols. So nasihat sis, dont bother dont bother dont botherrrr la nak jadik kekasih gelap ka cerah ka. Melainkan mmg dh ready mental fizikal dgn pelbagai onak duri dan cabaran
Itu jam, silelah. Hahah.
So alrightey peeps, am gonna go and watch the other boleyn girl pulak.
Skali skale stay up . Agitchew.
Til i babbles agaian.


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